A lot of folk might say (and have actually said to me) that I am ‘stifling the Holy Spirit’ when I speak like this – that I have no place in my heart for the Spirit’s movement. To this I would argue that the Holy Spirit is one of order, not one of chaos. He will not defy scripture and run amok with false sayings. I know now that God had a specific plan for our marriage – but one that does not involve us having a daughter. How do I know this? Because it never happened. We have found peace with this, because we know that God’s will is always sovereign, regardless of what the false prophets say.